Auto Empoderamiento
por Medio de la Revolución Sexual
e Independencia para la Mujer

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Where Did This Plan Originate?

It's hard to say when, exactly, someone created the first three-step plan to sexual safety; these concepts are not exactly new. I first learned about them from a communiy of young adults in the Seattle, Washington, USA area. The highschool and college students were using these rules to keep themselves safe while still having active, healthy, enjoyable sex lives.

I was so struck with the simplicity and effectiveness of what they were doing that I adopted it into my personal life and started using it with all of my relationships. I codified what they were doing into three simple rules, and I abided by them strictly in each of my relationships. I also took the opportunity to teach others about the three simple rules, and many of those people adopted the plan themselves!

Why Mexico? Why Now?

Right now in Mexico is the perfect time to be teaching the Plan. The culture of women in Mexico has changed significantly over the past two generations. We are more educated, more independent, and more and more we are demanding to be respected and treated as equals, something which doesn't really exist in our traditional culture. Many of us want to go to university, want to have careers, and, yes, want to have active, but safe sex lives!

But who is going to be responsible for our safety? Generally speaking, no one but ourselves, and certainly not the machistas of Mexico. While the culture of women has made extraordinary advancements in the past few decades, the culture of men has changed very little. Men are, by and large, still very machista and don't want to treat women as equals. The machista culture teaches men to lie and cheat, that women are not deserving of the same level of respect or consideration. Can we really trust them to prioritize our health and safety? Absolutely not. It's up to us to take our equality! We have to be responsible for ourselves, and responsible for our own health and safety. We can do in part that by following these three simple rules, and by forcing our rights onto a traditional machista culture.

Liberty comes through personal responsibility, and it's up to us to be responsible for our own lives, to make sure we're protected against STDs, and to only get pregnant when we choose to. That is our right and responsibility as free and modern women.