#1
Regular STD Testing
Many times, STDs can have no symptoms, and you may not be aware you're infected.
Testing is the only way to know for sure if you have an STD. So if you’ve had vaginal, anal, or
oral sex, getting tested is necessary.
Routine exams to check for STDs are necessary to be aware of any infections that you may have
accidentally contracted, and to seek treatment as soon as possible should any STD be detected.
If you’re sexually active, you should be tested for HIV/AIDS, HPV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, and
syphilis at least once per year. If you're with unsafe partners, then testing every three months
is recommended.
#2
Birth Control
There are many forms of contraception, such as the pill, the shot, the patch,
the implant, and IUDs. All of these forms of birth control are much more effective than
condoms, and every woman should use one of these.
By using a method of semi-permanent birth control, you’re protected from unwanted pregnancies
even if the condom breaks, or in the case of rape. Condoms are good, and they should be used,
but they are not completely effective and should not be relied on as your sole method of birth
control.
#3
Clean Partners
By undergoing regular STD testing, you will have documented proof that you are a
clean sexual partner and that the person you have sex with won’t have to fear. You should have
the same confidence in your partner!
Before having any kind of sexual relations with a new partner, you should insist that they get
tested for STDs. Don’t take their word for it! Many people will simply lie, and you need to be
responsible for your own health. Demand to see the test results from the doctor, and show them
your test results to encourage them. Don’t sleep with anyone who has not been tested.
In addition, if you’re in a new relationship, or you suspect that he may be or will be sleeping
with other people, buy condoms, carry them with you, and insist he use them. Even if he was
clean before, if he’s sleeping with other people, he could contract something and pass it on to
you. Be safe!